Wiccaning Ritual
Goal:
This ritual is for the purpose
of formally naming a child, and presenting him or to the universe. It is
a first rite of passage
for a new life, called “christening”
in Christianity.
Preliminaries:
Do this ritual when the parents
are sufficiently recovered from the birth that they feel like contending
with people again!
Rushing this can spoil the
joy of it for exhausted families. Some traditions chose to do this at a
specific time, for example the first new moon after the birth date, the
equinox or solstice of the season in which the child is born, etc. Pick
when you feel would be most appropriate.
Invite people who care about
this child, and will be watching over it. Family(by blood or chosen), Goddess
Parents, if any,
and friends. Advise people
that they may bring a small, symbolic gift to the child if they so desire.
This need not be costly or
traditional things like
toys or clothing, though that is okay too, it could be a poem, a gemstone,
a collection of
photographs or something
the person made for the child. Ideally many of these things can be saved
so that the child can have them again at age 18 or so, to see all the wishes
people had for them. Some examples might be “I bring this book and candle
to
{child’s name}, in hopes
her intellect will burn brightly”. “I bring this teddy bear to {child’s
name}, in hopes that she will
feel safe and comfortable
throughout her childhood”. “I bring this song to {child’s name}, in hopes
she will be blessed with
appreciation of music.”
etc.
If the baby cries through
this, no problem. He/she is just participating! Announcing their presence,
just go with it in the
ceremony, do not become
frustrated.
Supplies:
Standard altar set up, and
a candle to match the color of the zodiac sun sign under which the child
was born. Guests and
their symbolic gifts, parents
and siblings of the child and their symbolic gifts. If the name has a visual
symbol, you may place
something on the altar to
symbolize it, in our example, a {child’s name} feather for {child’s name}.
Ritual
Set up the altar, call the
quarters, cast the circle and invite the deities. A sample deity invitation
is below, use appropriate
invocations for other deities
of you choice.
Great Goddess Artemis, protector
of the young. We ask that you attend this rite, and welcome this child
to the moonlit
earth.
Great God Apollo, golden
brother, god of heroes and poets, We ask that you attend this rite, and
welcome this child to the
sunlit earth.
Parents approach altar with baby.
Priestess: Who is this new traveler?
Parents: {child’s full name}
Priestess: Raise censer of
incense and draw pentacle in the air before the child. “I bless you [child’s
name] with the power
of fire and air”.
Draw pentacle on child’s third eye with salt water on finger. “I bless you, {child’s name} by the power of earth and water.
Priest: “Lord Apollo, Guide
her in the ways of kindness and courage. Let her be valiant and wise, as
you are. Give to your
talents and appreciation
for poetry, art and music. Warm her through the long days of learning ahead.”
Priestess: “Lady Artemis,
protect {child’s name} with your vigilance, let her breathe in your fresh
air of the forest. Let her
be strong, free and independent
as you are. Guide her hunt for her own path. Protect her through the darkest
of nights, and
help her ponder the infinity
of the starry sky.”
Parent: One of the parents takes baby and faces him/her in each direction, starting with east. Once Priest/ess has made the
blessing for that direction,
the walk slowly clock wise until they face the next direction, where they
pause for the next
statement.
Priest: Hail East! Recognize
this person [child’s name]. Help her to soar in the limitless sky of thought
and imagination.
Send [child’s name] gentle
breezes to guide her on her path. Bless [child’s name] with all the airborne
powers of the East.
Priestess: Hail South! Hail
East! Recognize this person [child’s name]. Warm her, strengthen her Will
with your energy.
Send [child’s name] light
to help her prevail in the challenges that await her. Bless [child’s name]
with all the burning powers of the South.
Priest: Hail West! Recognize
this person [child’s name]. Help her to swim the deep seas of emotion and
empathy. Send
[child’s name] cleansing
waters to cleanse her of doubts and confusion. Bless [child’s name] with
all the flowing powers of the
West.
Priestess: Hail North! Recognize
this person [child’s name]. Help her to stand firm on mother earth. Send
[child’s name]
rich soil to root in, and
connect her with all that is. Bless [child’s name] with all the solid powers
of the North.
Optional God/dess Parent Component:
The Goddess Parents should
be brought forth then to the center of the circle, and the parents as well.
One parent should
hold the baby.
Priestess: In times past,
children were not the sole responsibility of the biological parents. This
responsibility is too great
for any one or two people
to bear alone. I hope that all in the community would help a child in need.
As a reminder that children need many sources of support, the tradition
of the god/goddess parents arose. These chosen people will have a special
relationship with {child’s name}, will be there should she need someone
outside the home to talk to. To share experiences, and to be a “neutral”
and loving third party should the family need help.
The parent should say {God/dess
parent’s name or names} will you participate in the upbringing of this
child, {child’s
name}. Will you be their
to listen to her, and help and advise us for her welfare if necessary?
God/dess parents answer
Parent passes the child to
the god/dess parent. If there is more than one, the goddess parent holding
the child repeats the
speech and then hands it
to the other or next god parent. Then the parent takes the child back and
says.
God/dess parent(s): Bless
and keep you {child’s name}. I will be here for you.
Name Chant
The parent(s) then sit or
stand in the center of the circle with the baby, and the group chants the
baby’s name. For
example, they might being
Rob-in, Rob-in, {child’s name}, then people will start to say it in different
ways, whispering it, singing it, saying it in different tones and inflections,
it should make a musical sound to raise energy. When the power is at it’s
peak the priestess or parent should call it by standing with the child
and holding them up the energy then goes forth to the universe, declaring
the presence of young {child’s name} and blessing the child. This energy
could go into a protective shield for the child, if desired.
All eat cakes and wine, ground,
open circle, thank and say farewell to quarters and deities. and celebrate,
and probably
change the baby!
As part of the celebration,
make a time to let each person present their symbolic gift to the child,
and state their wishes. It
is best to go around for
this so everyone can hear and join in this portion of the ceremony. This
may be done inside the
circle before the called
and wine if desired.

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